Author: shesabadass
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Welcome to SHE’S A BADASS. A blog about radical honesty over toxic positivity. I am a mom of four, writing about what happens when we stop pretending motherhood is “easy” and start telling the truth. I don’t think we are failing at motherhood, motherhood is failing us. This is Part 5 of the Invisible Mothers series, exploring…
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The reason I started writing about invisible labor, mental load and the household as a system (about the actual architecture of how a home runs and who it runs on), is quite simple. The internet and social media is full of productivity hacks and parenting/wellness tips, that treat the symptoms and leave the system completely…
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Welcome to SHE’S A BADASS. This is a blog about radical honesty over toxic positivity. This is a blog about what happens when we stop pretending motherhood is “easy” and start telling the truth. You’re not failing at motherhood. Motherhood is failing you. This is Part 4 of the Invisible Mothers series, exploring the hidden labor, emotional…
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Welcome to She’s a Badass. This is a blog about radical honesty over toxic positivity. This is a blog about what happens when we stop pretending motherhood is “easy” and start telling the truth. The truth is – the current system is impossible. You’re not failing at motherhood. Your brain is breaking under an unsustainable…
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What if your exhaustion isn’t a personal failure, but a data problem? You’re exhausted. Not tired. Exhausted. The kind that sleep doesn’t fix. And somewhere along the way, you started believing that was your fault. That if you were more organized, more efficient, more something, you could handle this. You can’t. Not because you’re failing. But…
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For YEARS I thought I was just a “bad mom.” No matter how hard I tried (new routines, better planners, simpler schedules), everything eventually collapsed back into chaos. Until one day I sat down, opened an empty spreadsheet, and started writing down everything I was actually doing. The data told a story I wasn’t prepared…